It's Never Too Late To Try Something New
I have a girlfriend that recently went on a diet and lost 30 pounds. She then went on a tear to resurrect many of the sports she used to enjoy prior to falling into a bit of a mid-life slump - golf, tennis and bicycling among them. She next decided to add running to her list of activities. Running was a new activity, and she wasn't sure how it was all going to work out, but she kept plugging away until she got to three miles. At which point she stalled.
And that's where I came in. As soon as I realized she had hit a road block, I convinced her to meet at my favorite running spot for a five mile run to a lake and back along scenic trails. She wasn't sure she could make the leap to five miles, but I assured her that based on her cumulative weekly mileage she could (the rule of thumb is that you can safely increase your longest run by 10% of your total weekly mileage). Bless her heart, she agreed, and we met this morning under misty skies for our first run together.
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| And off she goes! |
She managed to complete four of the five miles before resorting to walking. Expecting her to be disappointed, I was thrilled when she told me she didn't care that she hadn't hit her goal, she still felt absolutely great about breaking through the four mile barrier. And, even better, she agreed to meet me again in a week to give running five miles another try.
What makes this story a little unique is that my girlfriend is 60, reminding me once again that it's never, ever to late to try something new. Sometimes trying new things will work out, sometimes they won't, but it really doesn't matter because its the journeying that matters, not the final destination.
What a beautiful place to run (or walk). All many of us need is a mentor or someone to encourage us to try something new. Good for you and good for your friend.
ReplyDeleteI was so happy to be there for her. You know, my daughter was my mentor back when I began running. She and I ran my first three non stop miles together, across the Golden Gate Bridge and back. Still brings a smile to my face.
DeleteAmen!
ReplyDeletePaying it forward . . . you never know when the chance will arise, or when you'll be the recipient. :-)
DeleteHoney - great post for others to realize that they can always change! You have quite an impact on many people around you based on your attitude and approach to life. You are quite a model for me and the girls to follow!!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Mike
Thanks honey! I know that living with my energy 24/7 can be a bit of a task at times, so I thank you for hanging in there for so many years. :-)
DeleteI wish you lived near me! I need that kind of push to get going!! This post was very inspiring!
ReplyDeleteI was pleased pink at possibly helping someone else experience the joy running has given to me over the years. I've given thought to doing something along these lines as a second "fun" career, so I definitely benefited from this exchange as well.
DeleteSharon, I was just thinking the same thing! I have tried running on and off but never could get into it totally. Maybe if I had a buddy to help me get to the next level . . .
ReplyDeleteA buddy is definitely a great assist. Just knowing someone is waiting for me gets me out of the door on those days I'm feeling lazy.
DeleteMy running club is another constant source of inspiration. The bay area in general is replete with them, so I'm sure there are several near you. And runners tend to be such fun, happy people in general to be around!
Tamara,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you and your girlfriend. Sometimes all it takes is a little "push" from a good friend. I love Mike's note to you. He obviously appreciates your "Energizer Bunny" approach to life.
He's a paragon of patience to be sure!
DeleteCongratulations on your blog, Tamara. This is my first look and I'm impressed! Excellent topics and excellent writing .. .
ReplyDeleteIsn't it amazing how blogging touches lives? I so enjoy visiting those blogs I find inspirational in some manner, and get a thrill like you wouldn't believe when mine is visited.
DeleteI am so pleased to have found your blog, Sue. It is such a force of positivity, aside from being just downright entertaining.